Wow - time sure does fly. I can remember the day this kid was born, just like it was yesterday and now he is the big 1-8.
There are a couple of birthday traditions that we have at our house. First, the birthday kid gets to pick what they eat for breakfast. Whatever they want, they get. It is the same for dinner and dessert. It is the only day they get to pick everything that we eat.
They also get to give us some suggestions that they want for their birthday. Well, this year the only thing Dylan said was money. I hate just giving our kids money. It doesn't feel like a birthday if they don't have anything to open.
So I wracked my brain trying to come up with a way to give Dylan his present without just handing him the money. So, I made a card for every year of his life. I started with 0 and made my way to 18. And with every card, there was money in it and a story about that year in his life. So for his 1st year, there was $1 and for his 2nd year $2, and so on. I thought it was pretty clever and fun. Here are the pictures I used and stories I came up with.
0. On May 13, 1995, you joined our family. It was a hard and intense labor, but once you were here, life changed. You were a happy baby and just liked to play. You ate a ton and started sleeping through the night when you were six weeks old.
1. With a bigger sister, you started talking by the time you were nine months old, and started running - not walking - by ten months. You and Maquel would carry on conversations all the time.
2. You never had a "terrible twos" stage. You were always happy. It was at this age that you developed your love of the outdoors. You hated being inside. We were always bundling you up so that you could go out and play, even in the winter.
3. This age brought on your love of hiking and the mountains. Grandpa Balch would come and get you every Saturday and take you hiking and Grandpa Blake would take you on walks out to Comb and Butler.
4. From the time you were born and knew what a picture was, you never had a problem with your pictures being taken. You have always been photogenic, and even though you get mad when so many pictures are taken, you love looking back at them and the memories.
5. You started preschool at age 3 but attended for two years. You officially graduated from preschool at age 5 and couldn't wait to start kindergarten. You loved school, because you could talk to everyone.
6. From the first time you got to ride on a four-wheeler, you loved them. You were constantly wanting to go four-wheeling. And when we couldn't go, we would find you at grandma Blake's just sitting on the four-wheeler pretending to ride it.
7. You became a big brother for the second and last time. You were so good with your brothers when they were little. You loved holding them and feeding them. This was the one time that you were okay with being inside.
8. Your baptism day was awesome. You were so excited and happy, but then you always had a smile on your face. That was when you started talking about going on a mission - and you have never stopped.
9. Sports started to become important at this age, but the biggest change came when you had to get glasses. You weren't 100% thrilled at the idea, but you never complained. You were pretty happy, though, when you could finally wear contacts.
10. You could not wait to get out of Elementary school and start Middle school. By this age you were sick of going to school with little kids and wanted to go to school with the bigger ones. Although school wasn't the most important thing, you never hated it.
11. For some reason, you never thought you were good enough to play basketball. This was the year that you fell in love with that sport. Once you started, you never stopped - church ball, city league, school ball, no matter what you are playing, you love it.
12. We were so proud of you the day that you received the Aaronic Priesthood. Seeing you pass the Sacrament in church for the first time is something we will always remember.
13. Officially a teenager and FINALLY being able to play school football. It was the highlight of the year. You hated playing against your friends and the Mustangs had an undefeated season that year.
14. This was the year you started high school. You weren't really scared, more excited. Only four more years left and you would be done with school - at least until after your mission.
15. You finally got your own room. You weren't excited to see your sister leave for school, but you were thrilled when she left and you got her room. No more sharing with annoying brothers.
16. You love to travel (when you are not sick), and we have been on a ton of fun trips together - Canada, San Diego, Disneyland, Las Vegas, the Cruis, Chicago, and West Virginia. We hope that you will be able to see many more places in your future.
17. This was not the easiest year for you. Losing your grandpa was one of the hardest things you have had to go through, but always remember how proud he is of you and that he is cheering you on from the other side.
18. Man, where does the time go. You have grown up so fast. We can't believe that you are officially an adult, but we know that you will succeed in everything that you want out of life. We hope that you have the BEST year of your life! We love you beyond words!
So that night we had dinner and opened his presents. The one thing he wanted was to invite Charis over so she could have dinner with us. I didn't have any problem with that. We had homemade chicken strips, cheesy mashed potatoes, pretzel raspberry jello, and indoor smores. Everything was so good.
He didn't like opening everything in front of all of us.
We did happen to surprise him with an outfit.
The girlfriend - Charis Seely.
The boys decided to see if they could still climb the pole in granny's back yard. Dylan didn't quite make it to the top, but Jordan did.
Dylan and Granny.
I wanted a picture of the boys together, so Dylan was holding Jordan and Jordan was holding Kolar. It didn't last very long, but it's still cute.
This one is blurry, but I love it! They are all happy.
And of course I'm taking pictures, so I didn't get one with him, but that's alright. I still can't believe that he is 18 and going on a mission in two months. Time goes by so fast. I am soooo proud of this kid and all the things he has accomplished. I know that his life is going to be amazing. I am truly grateful to be your mom. Love you, bud!